Although it is common knowledge that some women are gold-diggers, there are so many men too who will stoop low enough to be a kept-man. Money is very important in life, noted, but the love of this money drives most to the edge of the world. If sexing and acting like you are in love is going to get you this money, might as well right. Do not confuse gold-digging and wanting to live a comfortable life. A gold-digger is never satisfied money wise but someone seeking a comfortable life will be good if his/her needs can be met and some wants as well. Now here are five ways to spot the female gold-diggers and five to spot the male.

Female
1. If you give her money to buy credit, she will buy the credit then flash you to call her back. now this is a scavenger…
2. She goes shopping and she sees a shirt you may like, she comes home and gets money from you to buy it. i’m betting that’s how you get your birthday gifts too…shame.
3.Lose your job and see how fast she remembers she isn’t looking for a serious relationship, at least not yet.
4. She brings her friends out with her anytime you ask her for a date. this is her trying to show off her “rich” boyfriend.
5. She always asks for money after sex. i mean this is the most obvious but the most effective gold digging method. it works….

Male
1. He has a fantastic job yet he needs money for another job.
2. After you get paid, he is always sad and his sadness is money problem. that’s when you see the sulking face.
3.He knows you have money so most of his discussions is how he wishes he had money to help you, and how there are no jobs, and how he needs money, how money is his only solution, how lack of money has ruined his life, shall i continue?
4. Some guys really need this money and make it useful for them, but when you give them this money and they spend it on friends and other girls it’s because they know you will always give them. now this is called “alapa stainless”…
5. He’s broke yet all he wears are designer clothes, he feels like a stud, talks about how good he is in the sheets (which he probably is), very proud, very cocky, no intentions of getting a job… he is a gold digger!

If your spouse has such characteristics… beware!!!.

By Dami Elebe